Two hands make a clap

Ok,I am being a little serious here now for this post..Bear with me..

Decided to talk about two hands make a clap..
Its about LOA thing and why I say so??

I truly think that for those people that are LOA has an issue with themselves..
Don't get me wrong here,I don't meant they are always the one in wrong..

LOA people tend to want the environment to fit into them rather than them fitting into the environment.. You can't just wait for people to suit you and feed you like a baby..you wanna be accepted,you need to take off your mask and stop being shy and take the 1st step to talk to people..
Of course its not easy doing that but as long as you try,people will try to accept you for who you are..if they don't,then well..they are not worth being friends with I assume..

LOA people needs to deal with themselves 1st of all..Why say so? Because its about their own mentality and perspective when they approach something.. If others can fit in so well,why can't you?Yes..there are some people that are really gifted in a sense that they can fit in with anyone,anywhere and anytime..
But wat about those that always feel left out and in the end they felt lk home?
You think they never try to fit themselves in??
NO!!..I am very sure 90% of them try their very best to fit in and they did not give up..
But like I said,its not gonna be easy,you can stumble and give up along the process of trying to fit into groups but think from the bright side..think about that awesome bond and feeling u're gonna have after u managed to fit into the environment..everything is gonna work on well for you..
LOA people just cannot expect people to understand them because it is impossible to understand someone totally..

Ok.. time to talk about us who are responsible for reaching out..Whatever I have just said does not mean that we don't reach out and let them change by themselves..
We need to play our part and leave the rest to God..
I salute those that reach out all the time and never give up..I really do..
For me,I can't to be honest..I am the person that follows up on someone rather than making the 1st move to know the person..Its just not me..I know that very clearly..I often run out of words..
And I usually give up people if they give up on themselves because I don't wanna waste my time on someone that gives up on themselves..I rather focus on someone that has the desire,passion and urge to change,be a better person and fit into the environment..
I know I sound quite ''rude'' here but lets be honest..
We might get drained in return..so yea..

Two hands make a clap..Its real.. Two sides must make effort to bond or else things will LESS LIKELY to workout..
Its your call..whether to make it or break it..
Life is like this.. God never promise us that there will be no suffering but He promise that He will give us sufficient strength to face the day..

People out there,time to change..
God can and will help you but you need to help yourselves 1st..
Forget about all the past that brings back bad memories and despair..
Be optimistic..
=)